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Just send a soil sample to the lab. I just googled NC State soil testing. Sounds liked you have already paid for it...
Incorporating sand with clay is not a good idea...you want more organic material. If you are resolved to the fact you are starting over, spread a thick layer of compost and work it in as deep as you can...with a big tiller or disc. Smooth it then spread another inch or two of compost on top again. This article is about trees, but good soil is good soil...http://www.vtnews.vt.edu/articles/2016/02/021616-cnre-soilrehabilitation.html
If pH is too low, yes you want lime. If pH does not need raised you can add gypsum into the mix as you incorporate the compost. Top dressing with gypsum isn't going to dfo much good... (nor is topdressing only with compost).
Check out the compost before you get it. A lot of what they call compost around here is clay and leaves mixed together. You just want old leaves, 2 year old wood chips, if there is a truck crop farm around, you could see if they have composted material...
You could also try biochar if you wanted to break out the wallet...
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When I lived in Charlotte I had the same issue; that red clay is a killer to get into shape. I asked a guy who was the turf manager for a golf course what to do about the clay soil, he told me this: aerating the lawn in the spring and the fall; not the tow behind, but the self propelled kind that really plug the lawn, and go over it a minimum of two and if needed three times in a cross hatch pattern. Before plugging, spread a half inch of compost so when it got plugged the compost would go into the holes when it rained. After plugging, overseed in the fall with good quality seed in the right mix for your area. Don't rake up your grass clippings. All of this will eventually transform the soil.
I took his advice, and after three years of this, everything got much better and the lawn looked great, and then I only plugged in the fall, didn't compost but did overseed. Also, get on a fertilizer schedule, I used Scotts schedule that they have printed on the bags.
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