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My first woodworking project was a new kitchen in the last house. I was a complete woodworking novice at the time, that's how I came to know Woodnet. Somebody recommended Udo Schmidt's
Building Kitchen Cabnets as my guide and I'm glad they did. There is a mistake in the Rail and Style formula, If you read the reviews, you well see comments about it. It was well written and easy to follow but for whatever reason Taunton Press never edited the first edition so it was never fixed. It covers face frame cabinets and the frame-less "euro" style. While Frame-less cabs are much faster to build, I think Face Frames look much nicer and give you much more design flexibility.
I'd suggest going to a cabinet shop or big-box store and find a cabinet style you like and measure the width of the rails and styles and face frame parts and also pay attention to the overlay dimension of the cabinet doors. You are fully committed once you start making parts. That way you know the final product will be aesthetically pleasing and not look like it was designed by an amateur.
Don't skimp on parts. I didn't buy the most expensive parts but I did buy good parts. Full extension Blum slides and quality face-frame hinges with all the adjustments. I also made a handy hinge drilling jig which did my measuring for me and it also positioned my screw holes. I have a pick of it if you want it.
I used a separate toe kick as others recommended. But I used in integral toe kick on the single narrow cabs like between the stove and fridge. My toe kick was 3/4" Birch ply. Much of it was scraps left over from the carcasses. Once I shimmed the toe kick level, I wrapped it with 1/4" birch ply.
I used biscuits at the bottom of each face-frame and the bottom of each carcass for uniform alignment throughout each cabinet. All other joinery was done with a little glue and a cheap Kreg Pocket Hole Jig.
Also, I found that big, deep drawers are much nicer to use and look good as opposed to lots of cabinet doors. All my drawer boxes were made of Birch Ply and I used a Whiteside Drawer Locking router bit for drawer joinery. I wasn't about to learn to cut dovetails at that stage of my experience level, maybe next time. But I honestly don't think I will ever do another kitchen.
I used hard maple. If I were to do it again, I would use an easier/faster wood to mill and sand... like cherry.
I wasn't very imaginative (I didn't even own a table saw) so I pretty much went "by the book" throughout.
I used a Gemini Conversion Varnish. It shot great, looked great but I was disappointed in it's performance around the sink and dishwasher.
My 2 cents
The kitchen: