In addition to the good advice above, the
Minnesota Woodturning Assoc
meets on the other side of Minneapolis from you. The next meeting is Jan 7 and they have a guest demonstrator the following weekend.
You and your daughter should both be very welcome there. I have yet to encounter one of the AAW clubs that does not welcome young turners. Most of the clubs have mentoring programs and some of them have special mentoring for kids. I would sugget that you contact a club officer before the meeting and tell them your situation. If they are like our club, they will put out feelers either before the meeting or as part of introducing the 2 of you as visitors to try to get a volunteer mentor for her (or for you both).
For my sister and for her younger daughter, I took a shipping flat and topped it with some 3/4" plywood (several layers for my sister) to get them to a good turning height at my 1642.
For your HF gem, it might be easier and more worthwhile to build a lower bench for the lathe for your daughter's use. That way, you do not have to worry about her slipping off of a platform as she learns to dance with the lathe. A simple hand tool height bench for her would be about the right height for her turning. Then she would also have her own workbench when the lathe is back on its current bench.
Please take the caution about hair very seriously. It has been a few years since we heard about any deaths from woodturning, but one of those was a female grad student who was turning in the departmental shop by herself and got her hair caught in the work. The other death that year was a turner who was turning a large, challenging piece that came apart at high speed. She was not wearing a faces shield and she was standing in the line of fire. It took a few days for her to die from the head injuries.
We tell you about the hazards because it is easier to learn good safety practices from the beginning than it is to unlearn bad habits later. With your sized lathe, having a piece come apart and do damage that a good face shield and safety glasses would prevent is unlikely, but learning to stand out of the line of fire is a good habit to develop.
The other thing to watch out for (for everyone, but especially for women because of styles) is floppy sleeves and shirts/smocks. Even floppy t-shirt sleeves can be dangerous when reaching over to do a cutoff.
FWIW, my sister was a carbide-tools-only turner until she had her first private lesson on turning big bowls. Until then, she was convinced that she never wanted to learn to sharpen. After that, she wanted to learn how to use gouges and how to sharpen. I have a good selection of carbide tools and use them for some situations. As my sharpening skills improve, I seem to use them less and less, though.
Also, while I am capable of using an oval skew, I do not recommend them. Traditional flat skews with the long edges properly prepped are much easier to use.