So, just to close this out. I posted this in Finishing, but I thought I'd repeat it here because this is where I got the answer to my question.
Based on Dave Diaman's recommendation, I selected this finish:
US Composites Kleer Koat Table Top
This finish comes with excellent, detailed instructions which should be followed RELIGIOUSLY. Do not try and scrape the last bits out of the mixing bowl. It won't dry properly. Don't watch YouTube videos and mix and match applications instructions. Also, epoxy finishes make an unholy mess. I thought I was prepared for this, but it really is something. It went through the tarp I laid down. I ruined a pair of sneakers having to walk in the messy run off. You've been warned!
Epoxy finishes go on like nothing else. You basically pour on what seems to be much more finish than you need, and roughly smear it over the piece. It will then flow and settle into a glass like finish. This was my second mistake, trying to skimp with the amount. You need to go all in and follow the quantities recommended in the instructions. Yes, its "wasteful", but better than having to order more like I did!
You'll need to "pop" air bubbles either with a heat gun or torch. I found that I could let the bubble form for 10 minutes or so, pop them, walk away for 10 minutes, pop some more, take another break, for about 3 or 4 rounds until the epoxy sets up.
In my application, the epoxy flowed over the top and dripped off the underside making major stalactites underneath. These I was able to belt sand off.
So here is the distressed chestnut top as I purchased it:
You can see the deep cracks and flaws that make me leery of just using poly. The whole thing was splintery as well. I selected the epoxy to fully stabilize the piece. I put a seal coat on the underside and used masking table to keep the epoxy for pour through the many flaws.
And here is the final product:
Note, I did not use any stain. I don't know why the table darkened so much. (I didn't make the chairs)